Hello friends!
Before I begin, this post is really only meant for those who are mature enough to understand my views, and for those who don’t take things too seriously or too personally.
So, I’ve been in the “kpop scene” for truly a good couple of years now, and I practically grew up surrounded by Korean music. In light of MAMA coming up, as well as a bunch of other award shows etc, I’ve just been reminded how gross the kpop culture really is. I don’t remember how or why fan wars have become as prevalent as they are now, but it’s shed such a bad light on kpop culture as a whole. So you could say that this post was inspired by fan wars hehe!
I remember back in the day when kpop wasn’t as popular as it is now. And we’d have to desperately try to convince our friends that it was cool and we’d even occasionally get made fun of. But now, even I’m finding it hard to support what kpop has become.
Let me bring up a few points:
1) The Big 3 privilege DOES exist. (Though it may no longer be Big 3 specifically.)
This may be the issue I am the most passionate about.
Let’s not be silly. This Big 3 privilege OBVIOUSLY exists. I’ve seen so many posts on Instagram and Twitter quoting all these sob stories about how all these groups from more recognised companies likewise had to train and work really hard to achieve their success today, and how they too met with their own various versions of obstacles and set backs along the way. Please don’t get your panties in a twist. Saying the Big 3 privilege exists, does NOT mean I’m saying that your oppas don’t work as hard as others.
I feel it takes a miraculous amount of self-delusion to truly believe that this privilege doesn’t exist.
Let me ask you guys a question, and please answer it honestly.
Would you rather audition for JYP/SM/CUBE/YG/BIGHIT etc or for Beat Interactive/Banana Culture Entertainment?
Don’t tell me your answer, but I could probably make a wild guess and get your answer right.
The question now is, why? Well, it’s pretty straight forward actually. Many of these more recognised companies are backed by greater connections, successful ventures, greater budgets, and are simply more experienced in the entertainment industry. And more likely than not, you would be a fan of the artists from these companies too. Did you hear of ANYONE wanting to audition for Big Hit before BTS became famous?
In fact, since most of us can at least agree that many of these bigger companies are practically veterans in the field of entertainment, is it not rather ludicrous to claim that all the years of success these companies have achieved gave them NO footing or pedestal whatsoever in the industry?
Don’t get me wrong. I agree that many groups from these companies didn’t get to where they are at the simple click of a button. Yet, the fact that they DID get to where they are now is already indicative of their success and backing. Just think about the hundreds of groups out there, who have been put through the same treatment or possibly even worse, whose names you still don’t know now.
2) The way the market works is actually kinda disgusting.
There’s truly no other word for it. And in encouraging such morbid behaviour, many fans are often utterly disgusting as well. People seem so fixated on playing the identity game that we try our hardest to find ways in which our favourite celebrities are better than other people’s favourite celebrities. We try to draw lines and make distinctions between “idols”, and “artists” and “musicians”, when in reality, they are all the same, bound by the same few sets of unspoken rules. And as much as you wish to believe otherwise, to these people, kpop is a JOB, entertaining is a JOB, and every album we buy and every concert we attend but only contributes to their pay check. There is nothing personal about kpop, aside from the very facade it hides behind to convince us that it is.
3) Some fans are plain annoying.
As much as I can appreciate a cute gif of a member I like, I will never understand tweets or posts that entirely over-exaggerate what kpop idols do. Just because these people are celebrities, does NOT mean that they are no longer capable of being nice people or nice humans. They do NOT lose all sense of moral integrity or chivalry or kindness just because they are famous. It’s alright to appreciate good deeds. But why do fans over-dramatise things and say,
“OMG Person X IS SUCHHH A GENTLEMAN WE DO NOT DESERVE HIM IN THIS WORLD!!!!”
“PERSON Y IS SO PRECIOUS THIS IS WHY WE MUST PROTECT HIM AT ALL COSTS!”
when these people are often doing things that regular kind human beings are already expected and supposed to do?
4) NOT everyone in kpop is talented.
Fans can be as delusional as they want, but for some reason, this is a point that they will never be able to understand or agree with. I’m no expert, but I’ve been listening to kpop long enough to know that not everyone is talented. Each member of a group plays a different role. You have the vocalist, the dancers, the visuals, the rappers, and once in a blue moon, you have the rarities who are all four things at once. But not everyone is talented, and I’m sure that they themselves are aware of this.
BUT, there IS something they are good for, and THIS is why they debuted in their groups. They may be good on variety shows, or just look really good, and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with them not being as good at singing or dancing. In a market so superficial, I say, SO WHAT if she’s pretty but can’t sing, or WHO THE HECK CARES if he’s handsome and can’t dance?
All these factors are just as important and marketable as being good at singing and dancing.
5) Kpop should NOT be your entire life.
I don’t know about you, but I didn’t sign up to join a cult. I just wanted to listen to the music.
This may sound like an assholish thing to say. But whether or not I want to vote for any group at any award show is MY own decision, and MY own prerogative. I should not have to be victim to people forcing me to vote countlessly on a website, or cursed at for being multi-fandom. This is MY CHOICE, and really no one should be giving me grief about this matter. Kpop is a popularity contest on its own, which is fine. And though I may be a fan of a particular group, I may not always agree that they should win a particular award.
I’m going to dive into the deep end here and risk death. But I personally don’t feel that Power should be named the best MV of the year, and I’m sure this reflects the deepest inner feelings of many EXO-Ls who voted. (I’m not a hater by any means, if you were to just peruse my blog you would know how many EXO concerts I’ve been to and how big of a fan I am.) I’m not condemning anyone of their actions, because there is absolutely nothing wrong with voting for a group you support. But this popularity game is not one I wish to participate in, and to my self-righteous and annoying self, there are many other ways I feel I can show support with a little more integrity to myself.
To anyone reading, you are first and foremost, your own person, and I think it is important to remember that you have your own struggles and woes to deal with without needing your hobbies to add on to any of that stress. You should not have to feel obligated to do something you don’t want to do.
This post was more of a rant than anything, and it kinda exploded out of nowhere, with no specific direction… but yeah… I do feel strangely liberated haha!
Just be reminded that these are MY opinions and are not meant to offend anyone. You are welcome to share yours (POLITELY) in the comments if you wish!!
Till next time,
❤